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I totally hate those guys/girls who impose rules, do’s and don’ts for their gfs/boyfies. Those who try, no, WANTS to change their partner’s lifestyle/hobbies just for their sake. I mean, what’s wrong if he/she smokes so much? drinks so much? go out much?. ok, yes they are just concern and all that shit. It’s part of their system already even before they met that person so why try stopping them from doing the things they love? that’s insane. trying to stole away the happiness and freedom they enjoy with just a snap is ridiculous. what were they thinking?. Yeah they say they love their significant other but giving them ultimatum and all that bullshits isn’t healthy. is it love?. If you really love them, let them be. let them do what they want. Isn’t it nice to accept their good side and even their flaws and vices (like smoking & drinking for instance). Don’t transform it or modify it to something you want it to be. It’s their life it’s not yours anyway cause if you insist on that, they’ll only end up being miserable and unhappy. don’t change they way they are. If they wanna change, it heavily relies on themselves, on their decision not yours and the only thing you can do is to support them right?. Love the whole package. take it or leave it.

just my two cents